Great Expectations

The title of this blog is the title of one of my favorite novels written by Charles Dickens. It's widely regarded as one of the most sophisticated novels of its time. For you dumb mutha suckas, that kinda means it was written with a grown up swagga.

I wanna focus on what I've been dealing with lately since returning back into the field of being unhitched, unattached, and unspoken for. The expecations of the single woman.

WOW, I haven't been out the game that long.. yes, my relationship of 4 years ended last August, but still, some of the ladies I've encountered during that time have made me flat out LOL.

I had a lady friend actually get mad because I didn't offer to pay for her lunch at White Castle. WHITE MUTHA FUCKIN CASTLE. Oh for real? You mad that I didn't buy your 3 cheeseburgers and chicken sandwhich? The hilarious thing is that it was HER idea to come down and spend my lunch break with me. Not to mention, she was LATE, and made me late back to the office.

Not to mention, when we had a date, I actually paid for dinner. Now, I don't mind paying. However, when I knew that girl for like 2 weeks, and she started to EXPECT things, I had to look at her like she was crazy. I don't know who she had messed with before but I ain't that guy. It's not hard to realize she was single.

For all the Diva songs, and INDEPENDENT women anthems and all the other bullshit on the radio that niggas know all the words to but wont implement, shit ain't changed. Women still going to be women.. Still wanna be spoiled, pampered, princessed(not a word). I'm all for that, actually, i'm not really all for it, but i'm not against it. If we are exclusive, then I don't mind spoiling my girl, just not when I've known your muthafuckin ass TWO DAMN WEEKS.

I was talking to one of my homeboys from HS and we both had our share of chicks... we both at a stage now where we are looking to older women. More mature women. Those who are appreciative of a good man and dont cloud the situation with all the other trivial bull shit that can usually creates 99 percent of the problems in all relationships. 99 percent of the time, it's the little things, not the big things that cause breakups.

Older women, look out.. You are starting to become more and more attractive. You realize that it's okay to expect things, but it's more likely for you to get them when you earn them through being a good woman.

Just because you give a nukka some ass doesn't mean anything.. You ain't earned nothing from that.

Anyway, yeah, i coulda came stronger, but I didn't. I'm going to play with my son and watch spongebob and Eat Oatmeal cookies.


This is The MIDDLE FINGER... telling you, when you expect shit that you ain't earned nor deserve, expect your ass to be left alone.