THE POWER BEHIND THE THRONE PART 2...RELOADED

No Foreplay this time to get you in the mood. The eyes just went white and it's time to go to work like a Jamaican. I left off answering the question about not feeling if your man is worthy. Joyce made a smart statement on the comments. You can't submit to "no demon". I agree. However, if you get married it still applies. You don't get a "Get out of submission free card" cuz he acting a donkey. If that's the case and you feel that way, Tyler Perry got a movie with Janet Jackson and Jill Scott. Rent it. Answer the question and then go get a Oreo Blizzard.


To finish up on that "Looking at your man as a King" , it's so vital to keeping a healthy relationship and marriage. I'm not married, however as a MAN (yep, I'm a MAN in errrr sense) I know what makes me feel good when it either comes out of my companion(Still Single) mouth or her actions that reinforces all that I do as a man in the relationship isn't taken for granted.

I gotta go to the ones that sit in the Throne for a second..... I am a different breed.... In my last relationship that ended, the (queen) pains me to say that, didn't look at me as a King towards the end. She was too busy looking at herself. However, I didn't roll out.. didnt stroll out until it was over. Because the "Prince" (Jackson) would one day have to look at the King in the eye and the King could say with his head held high that he tried to rule the best that he could. The King didn't put his own selfish desires and needs, that should have been met, above his love for the one who would take over the Kingdom and keep the name going.

As a King(or rather) when I was "King'n", I never asked something of the "Queen" that I wouldn't ask of myself first. A King should be that way. If it's something that you can accomplish, you can't expect your Queen to always jump to your beckoning. She's not a servant. She's not a Royal Subject. She's not the Court Jester or a concubine(sex slave for you non Bible Readers). She's the Queen. Now, if the Queen is not being a Queen, but acting like a spoiled, selfish, young Princess... Playas, you have a choice to make. There are two reasons she will do this. Either she doesn't know any better(possibly depending on her age and how she was brought up)... Or more than likely, she doesn't care. If it's the latter...

The Middle Finger want you to know... GET THE F*CK OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you handling business on some real King shyt, regardless of how big the palace or castle is... Or how nice the Royal Carriages are, and she ain't playing her part. STROLL. And I mean shyt from the bottom of my Stacy Adams. Yeah... It is my season... just a lil bit...

"Middle Finger.... We love it when you style on us... Don't ever change"

"You ain't gotta worry... I give you my word."

KINGS.... No Ruler should ever be unhappy when he enters his own CASTLE. If this is addressed and you working to make KINGDOM as prosperous and peaceful as possible and your biggest enemy, the source of your frustration, is sitting in the throne next to you.... Make that power move. Take off your crown.. Hand it to her..and wish her well in her future endevors as the new ruler... There is a potential queen out there waiting to "CONNECT" with you and live in the abundance of Riches(not just money you golddiggers) instead of the animosity of Famine.


Before I was bestowed the honor of being a King(without the wedding, lulz) I was a Prince in my father's kingdom rest his soul. The Prince saw the father do what many men do. What Tupac said when he did on the song with the Digital Underground.... "I get around." So the Prince indulged in all of the lusts of that which the King did because the prince will emulate that which he sees on his road to one day becoming the ruler of his own land. That Prince did mature though. Even at times in the mirror he doesnt recognize the face that looks back because it's such a drastic change. No more manipulation... No more games. No more Cons... and while his last Kingdom did fall apart because of a weak foundation... The KING did not crumble. He's still optimistic that he didn't fail... He just learned a way "NOT TO DO IT".

KINGS, your princes and princesses for that matter are watching you. The decisions you make, and even some of the ones you don't will effect them one way or another. Be wise. Back talking to the "queens" and not to obsolve my father for his transgressions but at times... He was denied that which is a King's right as well. This only applies to Queen #2(my stepmother) because I do not recall much of my father's first marriage because of my youth. Oh yeah, I told you I brought the chicken, but the Middle finger got more than just that... I brought the Kool-aid, baby as well. With just enough sugar to satisfy ya thirst... Why don't you take a drink... See how this tastes...

1Cor 7:3-4 (NRS) The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.

"Middle finger...(smack, smack, smack) it's just a little bitter... can you sweet'n it up for us queens?"

Uh, How about "HELL NO" You want sweet???? Go over ya grandma's house and ask her to make you a CHESS PIE...This ain't OPRAH. I will break it down though. That verse is saying that if your husband wants some... It's your job as a wife to give him some. Unless there is an agreed issue and the Bible in the next verse talks about Time set aside for Prayer..but basically, Paul is saying, "If your husband wants you to shake something.... Then ya betta get to shakin, baby" Like 3000 said, "Like a Polaroid picture".

"Oh hell, no Middle Finger... that shyt ain't gonna fly... cuz my husband(king) would be trying..."

"SHUT YOUR MOUTH, RIGHT NOW.... SHUT IT." I ain't ask you all that. " I'm giving you God's word... Not no hustle" (MALCOM X, should have won an oscar..Spike gotta be nicer to the white voters on the academy). That's more new testament for you. That is YOUR ROLE, regardless of how you feel about the issue. As is the reverse is true...

KINGS, if your Queen wants you to "lick around the icing of the Suga box... Then you need to stretch out ya tongue and get it ready for action.... I don't care if you spell the Alphabet as you do it... A... B... C...D, mutha sucka... You know them 26 letters...Start with that... Then get ya swag up and learn the "Tornado".

"Whoo Hooo, Middle Finger... I'm right there with you, baby... Please let the men know it's okay to do that.." (Whispers to her girlfriend)... "I like him, I'mma ride with this blog for a while"

Oh for real???? I did allow you to get hype for a second... but you forgot.... THIS IS POWER BEHIND THE THRONE....I ain't done yet. Let's see if You still feel that way cuz Shyt is about to get real.....

Ladies.... STOP BARTERING SEX. It's not a stock to trade, you ain't on WALL STREET... and it's not your right inside the marriage to do that. YOU ARE PROSTITUTING YOURSELF. Yeah, I said it... Straight up, All the way, 100. Need the Middle Finger to say it again? Cool... YOU ARE PROSTITUTING YOURSELF IN THE MARRIAGE IF YOU WITHOLD SEX TO GET YOUR WAY. Also, if you are trying to prove a point you still are the P WORD. Now, If you are offended... What's the name of this blog? Cuz that's what you can have if you are. Two of them... Two Middle Toes too. You see that X in the top right hand corner... If you dont' like what I'm saying... Take your mouse, and click on it. I dont want you here anyway if you can't handle some hard truth being directed at you. Cuz be damn sure...reverse the roles and you can't get to your feet fast enough to applaud.


However, Since you already know I DONT give a F***, I'mma talk about it, I'mma talk about it, I'mma Talk about...(RIP BERNIE MAC) Who are you to try and train your man to act as how you want him to act by witholding sex? He's your king, he's not a child. You ain't IVAN PAVLOV.(Yeah, Middle Finger was a Psych major). Stop trying to Classical Condtion your man. Trying to make him think... "If I does what she wants and make her happy, She'll give me some... and If I don't.. She won't."

Playas... If you allow this to go down... It's on you... However, the Middle Finger is giving you the OKAY to take your nuts outta the jar you allowed her to put them in and put them back in they right place.

I say it's prostitution because you are doing that pretty much in every sense. A prostitute trades sexual favors for money. While money may not be involved all the time... When you use your "coochie" as something to hold over your man's head to get something that you want or to have power over a situation... How is it not the same thing?

"Girl, I ain't giving him none till he does more for me... cuz I'm pissed at him" <---------- Common conversation among women.

You know what, You's about a dumb witch if this is you. You don't want it to work do you? What happened to Beyonce's little Clones? Yeah, I didnt think you really lived that shit. That is almost CERTAINLY going to make your man look for something else, not to mention it's trivial, immature and silly. "Schooling" your man is one thing. Trying to make him suffer, SEXUALLY, is totally different.

A word that has to dissapear when you enter into a marriage is " I ". That is a personal Pronoun. If you went to ST. STEPHENS over easter, you heard Doc talk about that. I must go away. The new word is "WE". Because it's no longer just you. Two flesh become One.

According to the Bible.... you know that book that you carry in church right before you start to gossip or look at someone's hair or dress and get ya Hate on, states that it is a sin for you to say, "I don't want to have sex even though you want to" Once you enter into a marriage ain't no more you. So if you so independent... Ya A** may be too independent to be made a wife.

Your body is his and vice versa... Them his titties. That's his Suga box.... If you ain't mature enough to understand that... DONT GET MARRIED. You may think that your love box is special, but trust... A guy will get the same feeling from someone elses that he will get from yours. Cuz when we finish...it don't matter if she's cute or ugly. WE GOT OFF. It's up to you to keep the power behind the throne and be the one that gets your man off as well as getting his other good traits.

I'd hate for you to do all the work creating a nice castle and then it falls apart cuz you got a lil crazy and went on a P*SSY POWERTRIP, and then another chick comes in and reaps the benefits from your effort. If the middle finger struck a nerve, that was my aim... but you still got time to change.

If you ain't married, you got time to learn. When it comes down, don't be like NEFFIE's baby daddy and be like, "Well, i'm ready to do what I'm already ready to do." Be the power behind the throne.

It still ain't over... There is more... I'mma wrap it up with Part three. The Power Behind the Throne Part 3... REVOLUTIONS... It's going to come full circle. Dont miss it.

This is the Middle Finger... trying to tell you... "If you wanna be able to STAND as the power behind the throne... Sometimes, you're going to have to LAY on your back when you don't want to. "